The Herpes Viruses Association (HVA) offers support, advice and resources to help people manage life with herpes simplex.
Like Tingler, the HVA normalizes the virus, on the basis that 2/3rds of the adult population are infected, although most don't know it. They offer information, drop-in sessions and products for sale on their website for anyone.
For members there is more information, quarterly newsletters and workshops on 'talking to a potential partner'.